"I think you need to fall in love with the wrong person. I think you need to fight and cry and sweat and bleed and fail. I think you need to have bad relationships and bad breakups. I think you need all of that so that when the right person and the right relationship comes along you can sigh with relief and say, “Ah yes. That is how its supposed to feel."

Excerpt from “Conversations with my Mother”   (via seabelle)

(Source: speioritur, via indefinite-soul)

"You’re just another girl to him, so make him just another guy.."

(via canyounotasdfghjkll)

(Source: mzxcv, via xsociety-kills-usx)

Maybe if I just pretend nothing is happening

Then nothing will happen

do you ever go through those phases where you just don’t feel like talking to anyone for a few days and it’s not because you’re mad or anything you just don’t feel like talking???

(Source: clara-oswald, via saintsfan489)

Its been a week

It’s been a week
And it’s like my life paused when I left
Abd now as I enter the city
All my thoughts are clouded
By that voice going on over and over



Fun little trick I learned in therapy: validation. When someone is upset, don’t try to fix the problem, point out the cause, or tell them it could be worse. Just validate their emotions. Be like, ‘shit yeah man, that sucks. I’m sorry you’re going through that. I’m here for you.’ That’s literally all you have to do to make them feel better. Thank you and goodnight.


(via theoriginal-thumb)

I’m a mess in a dress

With a horrible horrible hangover
I’ve realized how now I hate alcohol

I want to give you hickies where only you and I can see

(Source: hefuckin, via indefinite-soul)


*throws lamp at you* you need to lighten the fuck up

(via ninjakathy)